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It’s a strange sight at first—people walking barefoot outside, strolling around shops, or casually wandering through a supermarket with no shoes in sight. In New Zealand, this isn’t a sign of rebellion or poverty; it’s just another day in the land of the long white cloud. And while you’re adjusting to the lack of footwear, you might also notice that the average Kiwi doesn’t shy away from a bit of colorful language. Swear words fly freely, but here’s the kicker—they don’t carry the same sting they might elsewhere.

If you’re a newcomer, experiencing life in New Zealand can be both fascinating and bewildering, a true lesson in cultural contrasts. Here are a few ways Kiwi life might surprise you:

Barefoot Culture: A Symbol of Freedom

In many parts of the world, walking barefoot in public is seen as unusual, maybe even frowned upon. Not in New Zealand. It’s a land where comfort and connection to nature are prioritized, and nowhere is this more visible than in the country’s relaxed approach to footwear. Seeing people without shoes in supermarkets, cafes, and parks is completely normal.

Imagine the first time I walked into a dairy (a local convenience store) and saw a whole family—barefoot. They grabbed milk, chatted with the cashier, and strolled out like it was the most natural thing in the world. And here, it is. Going barefoot in public is a symbol of the laid-back, no-fuss Kiwi spirit, something that many visitors quickly learn to embrace.

Swearing: A Casual Part of Conversation

It’s said that New Zealanders have a relaxed approach to life, and this certainly extends to language. Kiwi slang is colorful, but even more striking is the everyday use of swear words. Unlike in many other cultures, where swearing might be reserved for moments of anger or frustration, in New Zealand, it’s woven into casual conversation.

You’ll hear a “bloody” or two tossed around when someone’s chatting about their day, or maybe a cheeky “bugger” when plans go awry. Don’t be shocked—these words don’t carry the same weight here as they do in other English-speaking countries. Swearing is more of a cultural quirk, a way to express emotion without offense. You might even find yourself adopting a few of these phrases after spending some time around locals.

The Kiwi Kindness: A Balance to the Bluntness

Despite the barefoot freedom and frequent cussing, New Zealanders are known for their warmth and kindness. The locals, or Kiwis as they’re affectionately known, balance their casual bluntness with an incredible sense of community and helpfulness. Whether it’s offering directions to a lost tourist, striking up a chat with a stranger at the café, or lending a hand during a crisis, Kiwis have an easy-going, inclusive approach to life that makes even the most jarring cultural differences easier to navigate.

For example, during my first week in Hamilton, I was struggling to find my way around town. Not only did a friendly passerby stop to give me directions, but they also offered to walk me halfway there, chatting the whole time. It’s this blend of no-nonsense attitudes mixed with a genuine willingness to help that makes Kiwi culture so endearing.

Conclusion: A Land of Contrasts That Grows on You

Adjusting to life in New Zealand can be a rollercoaster of culture shock and delightful surprises. From barefoot wanderers to casual swearing, the Kiwis’ laid-back lifestyle might challenge your expectations, but it will also win you over with its simplicity and warmth.

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